From filthy speaking we ourselves must entirely
abstain, and stop the mouths of those who practice it by stern
looks and averting the face, and by what we call making a mock
of one: often also by a harsher mode of speech. “For what
proceedeth out of the mouth,” He says, “defileth
a man,”1421
And again,
“As becometh saints, let not filthiness be named among you, nor
foolish talking, nor jesting, which things are not seemly, but rather
giving of thanks.”1424
And if “he that calls his brother a fool
be in danger of the judgment,” what shall we pronounce regarding
him who speaks what is foolish? Is it not written respecting such:
“Whosoever shall speak an idle word, shall give an account to
the Lord in the day of judgment?”1425
What,
then, are the salutary ear-guards, and what the regulations for slippery
eyes? Conversations with the righteous, preoccupying and forearming the
ears against those that would lead away from the truth.
“Evil communications corrupt good manners,”
For
he who associates with the saints shall be sanctified. From shameful
things addressed to the ears, and words and sights, we must entirely
abstain.1428
And much more must we keep pure from shameful deeds:
on the one hand, from exhibiting and exposing parts of the body which
we ought not; and on the other, from beholding what is forbidden. For
the modest son could not bear to look on the shameful exposure of the
righteous man; and modesty covered what intoxication exposed—the
spectacle of the transgression of ignorance.1429
For adultery is the fruit of lust, which is the evil
root. And so likewise also in this instance the Instructor censures
licence in names, and thus cuts off the licentious intercourse of
excess. For licence in names produces the desire of being indecorous
in conduct; and the observance of modesty in names is a training in
resistance to lasciviousness. We have shown in a more exhaustive treatise,
that neither in the names nor in the members to which appellations not
in common use are applied, is there the designation of what is really
obscene.
For neither are knee and leg, and such other members,
nor are the names applied to them, and the activity put forth by them,
obscene. And even the pudenda are to be regarded as objects
suggestive of modesty, not shame. It is their unlawful activity that is
shameful, and deserving ignominy, and reproach, and punishment. For the
only thing that is in reality shameful is wickedness, and what is done
through it. In accordance with these remarks, conversation about deeds of
wickedness is appropriately termed filthy [shameful] speaking, as talk
about adultery and pæderasty and the like. Frivolous prating, too,
is to be put to silence.1431
1431 [An
example may not be out of place, as teaching how we may put such things
to silence. “Since the ladies have withdrawn,” said one,
“I will tell a little anecdote.” “But,” interposed
a dignified person, “let me ask you to count me as representing
the ladies; for I am the husband of one of them, and should be sorry
to hear what would degrade me in her estimation.”]
“For,” it is said, “in much speaking thou shalt
not escapesin.”1432