John Gill's Bible Commentary Ver. 7. And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid , etc.] Who had sheltered her son, that slew his brother, from the avenger of blood; and not only the next akin, the avenger of blood, but even all the kindred and relations of the deceased, those of her husband’s family rose up as one man, demanding justice: and they said, deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he slew ; pretending great regard to the deceased, and a zeal for justice, when the main thing aimed at was to get the inheritance into their own hands, as appears by what follows: and we will destroy the heir also ; and hereby she would insinuate to the king, that the reason why the rest of the king’s sons spake against Absalom to him, and stirred him up to punish him with death, was because he was heir to the crown, and they thought by removing him to make way for themselves: and so they shall quench my coal that is left ; she had but one son, as she represents her case, who was like a coal left among ashes, in the ruins of her family; the only one to support her, keep alive her family, and bear up and continue her husband’s name; and, as the Targum, “they seek to kill the only one that is left;” and so the family be extinct: and shall not leave to my husband [neither] name nor remainder upon the earth ; should he be delivered up to them and slain; but herein the fable or apologue differed greatly from the case it was intended to represent; for had Absalom been put to death, as the law required, David had sons enough to inherit his throne, and keep up his name.
Matthew Henry Commentary
Verses 1-20 - We may notice here, how this widow pleads God's mercy, and his clemenc toward poor guilty sinners. The state of sinners is a state of banishment from God. God pardons none to the dishonour of his law an justice, nor any who are impenitent; nor to the encouragement of crimes, or the hurt of others.
Original Hebrew והנה2009 קמה6965 כל3605 המשׁפחה4940 על5921 שׁפחתך8198 ויאמרו559 תני5414 את853 מכה5221 אחיו251 ונמתהו4191 בנפשׁ5315 אחיו251 אשׁר834 הרג2026 ונשׁמידה8045 גם1571 את853 היורשׁ3423 וכבו3518 את853 גחלתי1513 אשׁר834 נשׁארה7604 לבלתי1115 שׂום7760 לאישׁי7760 שׁם8034 ושׁארית7611 על5921 פני6440 האדמה׃127